The one formula to respond to any life situation
…worse, self-righteousness leading to imposition. Where you come up with your view of “How the tree should look like” and then get busy convincing, persuading or forcing others to comply….
Get Unstuck in Life
…worse, self-righteousness leading to imposition. Where you come up with your view of “How the tree should look like” and then get busy convincing, persuading or forcing others to comply….
…mood will dictate whether I come up with more pros or cons. If I am desperate – the pros will seem sweeter than they are. If I am afraid, the…
…then learn to swim. Act, work hard, persist, keep going, persevere, don’t give up. Go deep. Commit. This also helped. In short, don’t wait for the right solution. Choose a solution and then make it…
…tolerate!!” Vs “I see that when I hear people speaking in a loud tone and making personal comments, I perceive that as disrespect and experience a lot of anger” ___________…
…earlier emotion. Even if the emotion seems completely justified, it is inside YOU and harming YOU. Else it is like saying “I know the food is poisoned. But somebody else…
…one at the front and the other on the side. With two chimneys” Sam is not sure… “Warehouse? Chimneys?….Whatever! Never mind” he thinks and comes back to enjoying the clouds….
Have you ever wondered what the secret behind great leadership is? Have you ever seen arguments? That it is about ‘authenticity’…or ‘integrity’..or ‘compassion’….or ‘vulnerability’ perhaps! There are dozens of answers…
…long I hold on to that feeling, and even whether I might make it come true! For example, saying “Today was messed up” will make me feel better tomorrow, pick up the…
…they can change a little, maybe a lot. Slowly, they become more compatible, even if they weren’t so. But if they both take it personally, as a personal attack, as…
…they are deeply connected! The head and heart are NOT in opposite teams – as is commonly depicted. So there is no question of ‘balancing’. Creating a conflict where none…