The biggest reason we find it hard to change in relationships
…they can change a little, maybe a lot. Slowly, they become more compatible, even if they weren’t so. But if they both take it personally, as a personal attack, as…
How we often WANT to suffer!
…someone you care about. Maybe its a person, a political leader, an ideology, a community, a parent, a relative, a colleague, spouse, ex-spouse a boss. Even a system, country or…
“You are blaming ME???! What did YOU DO??!!”
…question. You feel guilty. This is a common dilemma. Is being great myself an eligibility criteria to question others? Should a film critic be a great film maker before he…
Why do some people have the need to stay outside the crowd, while some have to be the center of attention?
The important word here is not ‘stand outside; or ‘stand at the center’ but ‘need’. When we don’t have a need or a compulsion, it is obvious that one size…
Can being emotional and being rational go together? Yes!
…they are deeply connected! The head and heart are NOT in opposite teams – as is commonly depicted. So there is no question of ‘balancing’. Creating a conflict where none…
Our pointless obsession with Efficiency
…really the best. Start with a new genre of movies, a show in a foreign language, a different kind of book, order from a different restaurant. Try it. Explore. …
Is it immoral to kill an ant?
…ask the priest…about the child. They don’t care about the ant. Morality by definition depends on the person who is passing the judgment, their individual values and the context. Moral laws…
The dangers of finding the reasons behind our fears
…you have created a reason to make it permanent. Now it is not longer a passing feeling, it is a big problem to be faced. And the weapon we use…
When your feedback receiver is really angry
…evaluation, right?” Pause. They will be thrown off. Let the awkward silence pass. Wait for the “What the heck do you mean?” expression to show up. Then continue in a…
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