About me
Hi, I am Vijayraj! Coach | TEDx speaker | Author I work in the HR/OD function for a major telecom company. Transformational coaching is my passion. When you feel stuck…
What to do when others label us?
…I feel threatened. Angry. Offended. _________________ Coming back to the original question, the issue was “not being taken seriously” but the assumed cause was “I am a woman in a…
The compulsion to control
…it consciously. Part of it comes from my strengths: Structure, clarity. I can visualize the EXACT outcome I want in a few seconds…followed by the EXACT steps needed to achieve…
Preparing for your goals Vs Pursuing your goals
…but preparing for them. What is the difference? Preparation involves hard work, but zero risk. The outcome is totally in your control. There is zero risk of failure. Examples are…
How to help someone who is suffering
…is foolish for you can be completely sensible for someone else. And vice versa. So whenever you see someone doing something ‘foolish’, remember it is not about behaving foolishly, but…
How can we control our mind from distraction?
…example, “I want to really prepare for my exams. But I keep getting distracted by thoughts of cricket and my crush! How do I eliminate thoughts of cricket and my…
When you feel like your life has been ruined
…long I hold on to that feeling, and even whether I might make it come true! For example, saying “Today was messed up” will make me feel better tomorrow, pick up the…
Laughing at someone’s bad decision
Have you ever laughed at someone’s stupidity? On how they failed to see something? For example, in 2000, Netflix founders Reed Hastings and Marc Randolph offered to sell the company…