About me
Hi, I am Vijayraj! Coach | TEDx speaker | Author I work in the HR/OD function for a major telecom company. Transformational coaching is my passion. When you feel stuck…
Making your ideas into Reality
…biting into a juicy Gulab Jamun is something else. Coming up with a hundred different ideas is great. Executing one of them is something else. Cos sometimes, committing IS freedom….
What to do when others label us?
…I feel threatened. Angry. Offended. _________________ Coming back to the original question, the issue was “not being taken seriously” but the assumed cause was “I am a woman in a…
A comic book to explain ‘Us Vs Them’ to a 10 year old
Though you might be disturbed by the amount of hate and polarization in society nowadays, have you wondered how it gets created? Not who is to blame (politicians, technology, capitalists,…
Preparing for your goals Vs Pursuing your goals
…watching motivational videos, reading ‘How to’ books, attending courses, getting certifications. Pursuing involves making an attempt – with the chances of failure. For example, if your goal is to score…
The biggest reason we find it hard to change in relationships
…might get? We might try, but will soon fall back to our defaults. Anybody who points it out will frustrate us! Imagine a boy who has grown up being served…
How to help someone who is suffering
…is foolish for you can be completely sensible for someone else. And vice versa. So whenever you see someone doing something ‘foolish’, remember it is not about behaving foolishly, but…
When you feel like your life has been ruined
…long I hold on to that feeling, and even whether I might make it come true! For example, saying “Today was messed up” will make me feel better tomorrow, pick up the…
The Workshop
…the next workshop! What it Sounds Like WHEN YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND You let go of things that were holding you back and you set yourself free You clear your…
How to control our emotions
…to control them Even if you get an emotion that says “Kill that bloody man!” – you have the freedom to choose your response. This means that even if you tend…