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There are no passive aggressive people. There is passive aggressive behavior. So passive aggressive people are not bad. Passive aggressive behavior causes some undesirable consequences. The stereotypical image of a passive aggressive person is an “Evil manipulator whose aim in life is to make people feel guilty and then control them to get what they want.” If that is …
Can you think of someone who you really hate or are angry at? Maybe because of how they are, what they did to you, or said to you, or to someone you care about. Maybe its a person, a political leader, an ideology, a community, a parent, a relative, a colleague, spouse, ex-spouse a boss. …
The important word here is not ‘stand outside; or ‘stand at the center’ but ‘need’. When we don’t have a need or a compulsion, it is obvious that one size cannot fit all. It is sometimes useful to stand outside and get an outsider’s perspective. Look from new eyes. Sometimes it is useful to be …
You might find yourself ‘working hard’ towards your goals or dreams – and still not moving ahead. On a closer look, it turns out we are not pursuing our goals, but preparing for them. What is the difference? Preparation involves hard work, but zero risk. The outcome is totally in your control. There is zero …
When I was 20, a pretty girl used to stare at me. I used to pass by this little house everyday. The windows used to be facing the street. Curtains always drawn. Not much light inside. But Through the cracks, a few feet away from the window, I could see her pretty face staring at …
Sam, Sara and Roy are enjoying watching the clouds.They watch the clouds as they pass. Calmly, silently. Sometimes hurried by a sudden gust of wind. They can hear the clouds whispering in their ears. Both the observed and the observers are calm, silent. Experience is flowing through them.Until Sam’s attention is caught by this cloud… …