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You are not alone. Most people choose career paths not based on what they want, but what the market wants. So they end up doing the minimum needed to pass the exams, get the degree, bag a job. Interests, passions are not yet explored. What is explored is not worth writing on a resume đ …
Over-analysis is the favorite weapon of intelligent people – to shoot themselves in the foot! To prevent themselves from following their own dreams. Are you one of them? The favorite words when your dream hits the dust is “It is not realistic!” or “But it is not practical!!”. Though these sound like sincere truths, these …
An agreement is just that – an agreement. Not a proof of truth or rightness. Violence and conflict don’t happen because we all have our own perceptions of truth. âI call it 9, but you call it a 6? Ok, let’s agree to both look at it from the right hand side and then proceed” …
I got asked this question once “My wife has a bunch of really attractive friends, and she expects me to never say anything to her about how beautiful they are. Does this seem fair? I love my wife, and just commenting shouldnât hurt anything, right?” The request seems totally unfair, right? One should not ask …
Forgiveness is difficult because we have a bunch of beliefs around “Why it is so difficult”. As long as we have those beliefs, it cannot become easier – so we cannot let go. If we see through these beliefs, letting go happens automatically. You do not have to DO anything – that’s the beauty! If …
No, you donât. âForgivenessâ is muddled with confusion though. So it is helpful to be clear what it is and what it is not. There are 4 aspects: Hurt: When someone hurts you. You feel pain. You are angry. Especially if you cannot retaliate. Forgetting: Forgetting that the painful event ever happened. Usually not possible. The …
When I was 20, a pretty girl used to stare at me. I used to pass by this little house everyday. The windows used to be facing the street. Curtains always drawn. Not much light inside. But Through the cracks, a few feet away from the window, I could see her pretty face staring at …
Sam, Sara and Roy are enjoying watching the clouds.They watch the clouds as they pass. Calmly, silently. Sometimes hurried by a sudden gust of wind. They can hear the clouds whispering in their ears. Both the observed and the observers are calm, silent. Experience is flowing through them.Until Samâs attention is caught by this cloud⌠…