Get Unstuck in Life
We all struggle with this choice when faced with a difficult situation. On one hand our heart says “It is bad to give up. Keep trying. Hold on!”. On the other hand, it whispers “Accept. See when you cannot change anything. Learn to let go”. How do we decide? If we examine the question slowly …
This post is to do an official announcement of the rebranding being done for this website! The aim was to make it ‘purpose‘ based rather than ‘person’ based. So I started thinking what is this cause about? Psychology yes. Spirituality yes. Career yes. But the underlying theme that ties it all is a sincere, genuine …
“You are blaming ME???! What did YOU DO??!!” Have you heard this in personal relationship, social life, politics? And then you feel you have lost the right to speak, to question. You feel guilty. This is a common dilemma. Is being great myself an eligibility criteria to question others? Should a film critic be a …
Until you are clear on what you want in life, where you want to go, everybody else will keep telling you where you SHOULD go. They are trying to help…or sell 😊 If you listen to where everybody says you should go, you will want to go everywhere. It is natural. If you try to …
There are many reasons why you might feel very anxious nowadays. And googling for solutions might drown you in an avalanche of information. Here are 7 simple suggestions that I have for you. Disclaimer: They are very simple. If you are looking for something hard, complex please do not read. 1. FEELING ANXIOUS IS OK. …
Once upon a time there lived a poor archer who hit his target every time – no matter how small, how far. When he pulled his bowstring into position, he became the picture of concentration, calm and focus. It would seem as if the arrow was being released not from the bow, but from him. …
The error lies in the interpretation of the word “self less action” and “Being unattached to results”. The common interpretation of ‘selfless’ seems to be ‘unselfish’ or ‘noble’ or ‘without expecting anything in return’. Or an ‘action done for the greater good, and not for oneself’. And we often agree because it sounds so ‘nice’…so …
The common answers found for this question usually swing between morality(“Because God said so”) and practicality(“We can try whatever is practically possible”) But that’s not needed. If you understand what the teachings really mean – it makes absolute, logical, meaningful sense. The other good news is, you do not have to use labor, hardwork, ‘will power’ …
“Every behavior has a positive intent” is one of the pre-suppositions of NLP(Neuro linguistic programming) This can sound strange. People do so many clearly ‘wrong’ things. How can the intent be positive? What about the guy who is always angry, the wife who had an affair, the guy who drinks and beats his wife? Instead …
Agreement is confused with understanding. Subsequently, disagreement is confused with inability to understand. We can end up losing true friends this way