This applies not only for our ‘darkness’ – but everything. Cos the only laboratory you ever get to work in is yourself
Building a connect with people
There are some people who can connect in a fantastic way with others or a crowd. Some connect in a flamboyant way using a lot of movement, hand gestures and stories. Some have an intense style, others have a funny style. Some have an intellectual style, sophisticated style, simple, erratic, loud, refined, aggressive or soft …
Why do some people have the need to stay outside the crowd, while some have to be the center of attention?
The important word here is not ‘stand outside; or ‘stand at the center’ but ‘need’. When we don’t have a need or a compulsion, it is obvious that one size cannot fit all. It is sometimes useful to stand outside and get an outsider’s perspective. Look from new eyes. Sometimes it is useful to be …